Alexander Lajer, Integrative Therapist in North London

Welcome from Alexander Lajer

Supporting the emotional well-being and growth of young people at different stages of life in North London.

My approach is creative, compassionate, and always tailored—whether you're navigating childhood, adolescence, or early adulthood—to help you feel heard, understood, and empowered to meet life's challenges.

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If you are a referrer, parent or a young person seeking therapy, and unsure therapy is something that's right, and have questions, let me answer them over a quick no obligation free telephone call.

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Therapy for Children, Adolescents & Young Adults

Tailored support for young people at every stage—helping children, teens, and young adults thrive emotionally, socially, and academically.

Children & Adolescents

Providing a nurturing environment for children and teens to explore feelings, build resilience, and develop healthy coping skills through play, conversation, and creative activities.

Young Adults

Supporting young adults as they navigate independence, relationships, academic and career pressures, and personal growth in a safe, understanding space.

Integrative Approach

Blending a range of therapeutic methods—including creative, evidence-based, and relational approaches—to create a personalised experience that meets the unique needs of each child, adolescent, or young adult.

Mr. Fonzie, therapy dog at Alexander Lajer Therapy

Meet Mr. Fonzie

Mr. Fonzie, my therapy dog-in-training, brings warmth and comfort to our sessions. His gentle presence helps those who I work with feel safe, supported, and more at ease during therapy.

  • Calming influence in sessions
  • Encourages emotional expression
  • Builds trust with young clients
  • Helps with emotional regulation

Benefits of Therapy for Children

Emotional Growth

Therapy helps children understand and manage their feelings, fostering emotional intelligence and self-awareness.

Resilience Building

Develop coping strategies and resilience to navigate life's challenges with confidence and adaptability.

Improved Self-Esteem

Boost self-esteem and self-worth, helping children and adolescents feel valued and empowered in their daily lives.

Begin your therapy journey with Alexander Lajer

Ready to Begin the Journey?

I'm here to support you and your family. Contact me today to learn more or schedule a consultation. Together, we can create a safe space for growth and healing.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What happens in a therapy session?
Sessions are warm, confidential, and tailored to you. For children, this might include play, art, or creative activities. For older children and adolescents, it may focus more on talking, reflection, and practical tools. Every session is a safe space to explore feelings and build resilience.
Play therapy is child-led and uses toys, games, and art to help children express feelings they may not have words for. Learn more in the Play Therapy article.
Therapy can help children, teens, and young adults facing anxiety, low mood, stress, trauma, bereavement, family changes, self-worth issues, or simply needing a safe space to talk.
Mr. Fonzie, my therapy dachshund, helps children and young adults feel more comfortable and open in sessions. His gentle presence often makes it easier to share difficult feelings. Read more in The Healing Paw article.
Let your child know therapy is a safe, friendly place to play, talk, or just be themselves—there's no pressure. You can show them photos from the website to help them feel at ease.
Yes, I work with both young adults and children, adapting my approach to each client's needs. Young adults may benefit from talking therapy, grounding techniques, and creative exercises.
The journey begins with an initial consultation. This session is held specifically for parents and carers, either in person or via a secure online platform, allowing us to speak openly and gather a comprehensive picture of your child's needs. Depending on the child's age and the type of therapy — for younger children, parents are often involved in the early stages of therapy; for adolescents, I prioritise a space to build trust.
Trust is the foundation of effective therapy. I follow ethical guidelines (BACP) to create a warm, authentic, congruent space for children and young people to explore their material and to be met with empathy and curiosity. I work with my clinical supervisor Maggie Hope, who has worked with clients and supervisees over a 30-year career.
Yes. I have experience supporting clients through trauma, loss, family changes, and other challenges. Therapy offers a gentle, supportive space to process and heal.
That's completely normal. Play, art, and animal-assisted therapy can help when words are hard to find. There's no pressure to talk until you're ready.
Everyone is different. Some people feel a shift after a few sessions, while others benefit from longer-term support. We'll regularly review progress together.
I offer both in-person and online sessions, depending on your needs and location. Please contact me to discuss what works best for you.
You can book a session by contacting me here. I'm happy to discuss fees, availability, and answer any questions you have before you decide.
My cancellation policy requires at least 48 hours' notice (excluding weekends); otherwise, a charge will incur.